Of Men or of Angels

[MHL]

Wow,
The Moose Hunter and the Tutu Wearing Rican awaken!!!

Must be Little Friday

Grit,

We have walked the miles together, and while I have formally ended a marriage that was over probably 2 years ago, it does not mean that I am further along or have some knowledge or feeling that you have not yet become enlightened to.

I don’t want to push you to a decision that you are not ready to make, and I know you too well to think that what I might say here would have any affect one way or the other but I wanted to get my disclaimer out there.

(so if you could print this post, sign and date it and mail it to me, I will keep it as a “Liability Wavier”…. LOL )

I don’t see you in limbo…….in fact I see that you are out of limbo and looking around at the new ground you are standing on.

I do see you struggling to match your actions (meaning to file for Divorce) with how you say you are feeling ( you are done ).

It is like you are standing on the edge of the cliff threatening to jump and you keep looking back at your W to see if she is watching.

I’m going to jump…..really.

I mean it, …..are you ready, I’m going to jump.

I really mean it, I told you, you can’t say I didn’t tell you……..

Okay, I’m going to do this, unless you say something, I going to jump.

I mean I can come back and work on the marriage too but that is your decision….

I am really ready to jump, I just wanted to make sure you know that I am ready.

Okay before I jump I just want to go over how we got here…..then I will jump....

Unless you wake up and stop me……

I mean if you stopped me I would not be unhappy.

But I am ready, I mean it………..

I am not in the business of swinging 2X4’s at my good friends but they would not be my good friends if we did not exchange some wood products every now and then.

I am not telling you to shat or get off the pot, just pointing out what it looks like from out here. 

Usually hesitation is driven by fear or doubt.

Is there something you are afraid of??????

Are you doubting your journey what you have learned or where you are at????

Sounds like you are ready to check out of the hotel room but before you go you want to make sure that you did not forget anything.

Check the drawers

Check the shower

Look under the bed

Did I get everything?

Check the drawers, oh wait I did that already……….

Or did I?????

Take your time Grit, go ahead and check the drawers again.

Happy Little Friday Brother…..

Cheers

~C