First, sorry J3B's, I know I don't have 100 posts on my old thread. I just need an answer for this asap.
I talked to my IC today. She thinks H and I should go for counselling to get some closer for all the drama that has happened in the last 9 months (H's affair, the cover up/lies etc, me having him leave when I found out and othr MLC behavior) I would like to be able to move on from these feelings, but I'm not sure if C will help. Has anyone else done this? I'm 95% sure I want to end this marriage, I'm not sure where H is...although if I asked I'm sure I'd get a negative answer.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12