No 2x4s from me. If your W was "just" some person you did not have an M with, your behaviour appears to have been very natural. Someone was over visiting, you chatted, there was attraction and something happened, but then you were done and off you went.
If that is TRULY how you behaved and how you feel / felt, then that is awesome.
The question is, what are your expectations for Friday? How might last night now effect those expectations.
And remember:
Originally Posted By: OnMyWay
- she's such a fantastic person, but such a burden.
What about her behaviour makes her a burden? How much of a burden is it, on it's own? How has the dynamic and all the "little bits" created that burden?
Remain focused on why you feel that way about her. You might feel pleasant being with her right now because the part of her that is a burden to you is not a focus of your life. If you get caught chasing the parts of her that you like, but she hasn't done anything to change the behaviours that you do not like, then she will again become a burden.
