When It Rains, It Pours

[ninelives]

Country:

My heart goes out to you and your wife in this case. She is going through a lot of emotions. I know when my W's mom died she was actually blaming herself for putting her mom through alot in the last year with our separation.

My W, wanted me around and then didnt at times. But everytime there was a function, She wanted me there.

I made an effort everytime to be there for her and put our differences aside but there was one time when I felt an anxiety attack and had to leave. I did return but my W was very strange on a few occasions and wanted to talk about the R despite me saying that this wasnt the right time.

Also, our separtation was finished right then as well.

My point, just be there and let her dictate everything. If you need to leave because things get heavy or uncomfortable, just do it in a positive way with no conflict or anger.

Be the shining example of the strong supportive husband that she NEEDS right now but dont come on to strong and EXPECT NOTHING.

All the best Country!

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