Hey Country I just read up. I am sorry for the lost. Where you guys close? I will pray for you and your W and MIL.

What TG is saying is right on.

You have offered your support and it has been denied.

You being there would prob add more stress to W.

She has asked for what she needs. "take D" and you have done so.

Be available if she needs and that is ALL you can do.

You can pay your respects at the wake/funeral but right now the family has a lot to sort out.

I know what it feels like to see the ones you love in pain and you can't do anything about it. The pain is yours also.

The only thing you can do is be a friend to offer support and shield your D from some of the chaos that will come about the next few days.

Again sorry for the delay.

Prayers going your way...................

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