Bobby63,

What was your W's childhood like? Any major traumatic events or abuse of any type?

Has anything major happened in your lives in the last 12 to 18 months?

MLCers are either not aware of hurting their loved ones or just don't care because everything is all about them. They are selfish to the extreme.

There are a lot of examples of the spouse waking up. If your W is in MLC just don't expect her to wake up soon. We're talking months and in many cases, years. The goal is to outlast the MLC if you want to.

If you want to come over to the MLC board, you just do what you did here, and post a new topic.