18 Wheels and a Dozen Roses

[OnMyWay]

Good stuff. My approach to Mom's day is to focus on MY mother. Then, I'll also turn my attention to my D and help her focus on HER mother. AJM80, you've offered up some great ideas I'll probably institute them to help D with the process. I intend to help D make this her best Mother's Day ever. I want no credit for it. It is all about the two of them.

AJM80, unfortunately, you may be at a loss as father's day will be a holiday for DBing for you, as you can't DB your own Mother's day. It's a reality - not trying to be mean here. Just set you expectations low. If H does come through for your kids, I think the focus should be on the kids. They will appreciate your love, which is paramount. If H had a secret hand in the process, he'll feel good and every one will benefit from the honesty of well placed intentions.

On the other hand, if you get shorted - again, being realistic, not nasty - chalk it up to a bad situation and still make the most of your Mom day with your kids.

Either way, you win!!! Your attitude will be everything here, so don't let anything get you down. It's your day. Make the most of it with your family regardless.