Perhpas next time she says," but you said that you would do this or do that" Etc..
You can matter of factly say, " Things change, people say alot of things over the years but situations change, dont you think"
I think that the implication of the wedding vows are there whether she gets that or not. YOu dont have to be nasty or call her names but to me , that is some huge nerve that she would throw that at you. " YOu promised this and that" What about the promise that you would be together till death do you part?
im not sure how i would phrase all this but in a tactful way.
Sometimes, I wonder where all the logic of the WAS is.
Stay strong Brian.
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