You are getting good advice. Change those locks. Fort Knox comes to mind. That or a big old protective Rottie to meet him at the door.
Now, this is my opinion, but I do not believe for one minute that your H could not look at you because you disgust him. I believe he couldn't face you because of his own guilt and shame.
If he truly believed the crap he spewed up on the stand under oath, he would have been able to look you in the eye.
I also think his arrogance was a mask. Confidence is commendable, but arrogance is a cover for insecurity. I mean c'mon, not greeting your L is the epitome of childish behavior.
After all, all this was brought on by the choices he made.
