I agree with snodderly, go over things again. Change your locks now.
Your XH is purely selfish and self-righteous. Unfortunately this is the part of the crisis that they cannot understand or visualize.
If a video of their ridiculous actions and behaviors was played just for proof they would deny, deny, deny it was them in the video.
Your lawyers and the judge were way ahead of him. They have seen it all before and can recognize all the tactics and b-crap these guys can muster.
I have confidence that the judge will not let you down. Have faith that justice will prevail for you.
Please take care and rest well tonight, you are going to be fine.
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11