OMG. That is SOOOOOOO true. Don't keep the old emails, Tad. That will do nothing for you except pull you back to the past. Do you want to be pulled back into that? Really? Think about that because that tie to the past is killing you - both.
Yesterday is past. Tomorrow isn't here yet. Today is a present - enjoy it. Live in the moment Tad. That's what is real.
I went through that as well. Still do as I clean things out. Believe me, the best way forward is - forward.
Somebody else once posted here: our past is just how we got here. Was that Jack?
But it's true. It's all behind us and cannot be changed. Go forward for you Tad. Do it and don't wait because it takes time and effort to create new habits.
How's that garden coming? The job search?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."