I havn't had cause to post lately, but I have been reading on a lot of sitches. And honestly I am relieved to no longer feel a need to regularly: report, journal, monitor, vent etc. etc. on my own sitch. I know it sounds like I have given up hope, but really what it is, is I realize anything approaching the end of an MLC is going to take a long, long time.

So - just waiting to go before the judge for a rubber stamp on our D agreements. W hasn't changed at all and still behaves like a typical WAW. I on the other hand have let go and let God and trying to make the best of a less than comfortable roommate arrangement.

Will keep you all posted if anything develops.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."