I called to check on her. It sounds like he had a massive stroke. It sounds very bad at this point, but it is still so early.

She was just so distraught when I talked to her before, I just wanted to see how she was doing, and make sure she knows I am there for whatever she needs.

She was actually very appreciative of the call. She started breaking down again. Her dad was in very good shape, and is only in his 60's, this comes as a complete surprise, so she is very much in shock.

Whether the follow up call was a good idea or not, I know it is all I can do for now. If she does not want my support, it hurts, but I will understand and respect her wishes.

I really like her dad. He is someone I respect very much. This is very difficult.


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