When It Rains, It Pours

[islander]

I think you handled it well. You offered her your support and anything that she needs. She may have declined, but she KNOWS you will help her in any way IF she needs it.

I would not offer again. Let her have her space and deal with it in her own way.

If you had/have a good R with your MIL, by all means I think it would be ok to call, and I would.

Just don't pressure your W right now.