Like I said, I just want to be there for her so bad.

It tears me up that she does not want me there.

You see someone you care about so much hurting, and I cannot help. She doesn't want me to help.

I want call MIL and offer support, but then I think I'll just be getting in the way.

I just don't know. I want to call W and say I'll drive up and get a hotel, be there just in case she needs me.

I just want to help!

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