Here's where I'm at

Originally Posted By: islander
. Is it bc your W is moving out in three days and you so badly want her to stay??

Yes, it is bc my W is moving out. But it stops there. I will have less opportunity to get this off my chest after she moves out. I don't think it will change anything right now on her wanting to stay or not. There is a risk it may be construed that way.



Originally Posted By: islander
And, do you think your W would change her mind about moving, your M, bc you tell her these things.


No, I don't think my W would change her mind about moving. It's possible she may rethink some things with our M, but this would take place over time.

Part of the reason is she so h3ll-bent on D, and I don't think there's much question these are things she has been harboring for several years. I am not sure which man she wants to D - whether it's man of today or one from the past.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26