Sigh there was a relapse Pretty demoralized will post later
And you are surprised? It will be a roller coaster for quite a while. You need to find strength within yourself.
Remember to tell yourself that you are a good person who deserves to be loved by a woman who cares about you and treats you well. Visualize what a good marriage means to you, then make it happen. Remember that you can only change yourself.
Originally Posted By: Young at Heart
...Understand that your wife will challenge you.
...Understand that your wife will test boundaries.
...Understand that you wife will pick fights and that you will need to take a deep breath and avoid taking her bait.
...You and she will backslide on some the improvements you make.
...Understand that it will take longer than you expect to heal your relationship.
...Seek help from others and be open to their help and love.
...Good luck to you. I wish you the best.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
