Originally Posted By: calystra
Yeah sometimes those bad decisions turn into good conversations. It was a great conversation. Now you HAVE to let her come to you. This has to be her choice and her decision, you cannot make it for her.

Go GAL til Sunday. They're right that you're going to have tons of expectations, but just stay calm and realize you've put yourself completely out there. Everything is out in the open. She understand you, you understand her and now she needs to make this choice.


Totally agree.

What's done is done, so I won't really comment on that, however, for what it was, you seemed to handle it as best you could.

Now, time to step away. Give her the time she needs to figure this out.

You take care of you, she'll take care of herself.

No more words will help this.

Truly become the man she wants to be M to. Don't tell her things will be different. SHOW her.

Right now, the most respectful and kind thing you can do for her, is to give her space and time. It is what she needs.


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