Am I on the right track?

[Confused423]

Wow Moose! That was a big step you have taken. I think you handled the conversation well. The only caution I would give you is this: After you say those types of things and they open up to you like that, you start having all kinds of expectations. If they start to move toward you a little more, you start assuming that they want to be back with you forever and it makes you crazy.

I've had that conversation with my H about 3 times. They are so afraid that the M will go back to the way it was and they are just too afraid to try. I honestly understand how you feel and if you can keep up this new momentum then it will be a GREAT thing for you. Just remember the word of caution.

The vets will be along to give you what for I'm sure