No 2x4's from me NE... not today anyway. I'm happy that you found some sort of comfort in what happened and what was discussed with your W. This stuff is not easy. Tread carefully in the future with this kind of stuff NE... that is my only warning to you.

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce