A couple of weeks after we returned, she cut off contact with OM completely and committed to going to MC with me. And not with me asking her... she knew I wanted to go when she was ready... and when she was, she told me.
So mid March came... and here is where I made a critical error. I believed that we had moved to the piecing stage.
Originally Posted By: Jack Three Beans, back in February
Denver,
I am not taking anything away from this most awesome night.
Controlling emotions is usually preached for bad ones, anger and such, but its also for the good ones.
Don't gloat.
You know how to kill a vampire?
Stake in the heart, cut the head off, fill the mouth with Holy Communion, Burn the body, gather the ashes and drop them into a body of running water.
Stake in the heart isn't the time to gloat.
I want you to consider this.
Your W said that OM was going to back off while you both figured this out.
Don't trust this guy to play nice and follow rules.
Cause they guy who decked out your wife's place on Valentines Day, ain't the guy giving her space while she figures this out.
Be mindful, and if you underestimate your enemy, it will cost you. _________________________
It would appear that this was prophetic. ^
It seems to me, from your "To-Do" list above, that you are STILL underestimating the threat that this man poses to your marriage.
