Tipper,

The sober up or else speech...

Don't worry about that right now, unless he says he wants to come home...

It isn't something that you have to decide today...

Right now, let him go, and work on getting your life a little more stable for you...

Down the road...if he wants to come home and you decide to make that a condition...THEN you worry about it...



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox