I have been doing that for the last three years. Truthfully, I have been doing that since right after we got married. Every week while I have been reminding him of his comments about wanting the same things I wanted. The only reply I get is 'I'll work on that." I started back going to church by myself. The only thing he says is "How was church?" I started hiking by myself, the only thing he did was complain to his bestfriend that I went hiking all the time; but he still didn't consider joining me. I have always went out with my bestfriend, and he's comfortable with that because she was our matron of honor. So, no threats there. He knows that when ever I go anywhere, I am with her. I even started going to the movie with a guy from work, the only thing he cared about is what time I was coming home. I often organize social gatherings and I am an independent travel agent, so often I am traveling, still, he has only went with me on a cruise once in six years and has never joined me in any of my social events. I have had to travel to Europe by myself a couple of times because he is not getting on an airplane. You know what? the more I write this stuff, the more I don't see what I am waiting for.... I just can't live like this! I thought I was marrying someone whom we had a lot in common. He said he loved to travel and was interesting in working on his health, both which has proven to be a lie. So, after Christmas, I am going to propose to him that we separate and he can think about what he wants to do. Frankly, the only thing that's going to be different is that I will be sleeping in another bedroom because he doesn't do anything with me nor do we have sex, so we are really already separated! This makes me sick!
