Not much I can add to the wise advice above. My H is PTSD and Alcoholic (which comes first, the chicken or the egg?) after serving in Iraq. Today I am going to court for the Divorce. It's been a 15 month long battle, but it's time for me to move on.
My only advice to add to you is distance yourself as much as possible from your H and his problems. Let him deal, and you heal. Time will tell all.
((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011