I hope you are correct. I am concerned that she only focuses on the negative things and basically chooses to only remember them. Even since the separation, and even since she has been openly (other than to me) with OM, we have had shared numerous things that should mean something to her.

I am starting day 7 of dark. Up until now, I always saw her on Wednesdays when I drop off/pick up S17 from work, since it's my day off and I have time to see her. Not today. I know we both need time to heal and I am soooooo trying to do what is best, not what I feel like I need to do to feel better for a few moments.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.