You could look at it this way...she said she wanted a divorce, but was also confused and blah blah blah...SHE DIVORCED YOU.
She calls and flirts and talks and blah blah blah SHE CHANGED HER NAME BACK...
No matter what she SAYS, her actions are clear enough for you, aren't they? You can close a door, and not lock it. You can stop looking over your shoulder (emotionally) and swim to the other shore. You can. None of it means your d loses her. But you move on. I am not saying give up b/c this site isn't about giving up. But don't see fog where there isn't any fog.[/i] Really There's not a lot to worry about until IF AND WHEN she wants back into a new M with you. IF that happens, it will be with utter clarity on her end, or it won't be worth your time/energy. JMHO
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016