I was digging through my computer today and happend to stumble upon an old email that W sent me about a week before she moved out. I'm not so sure she is MLC after reading it. I had asked her to be completely honest with me about her internet dating "experiment." This was her reply.
"There were grey areas about the internet stuff. I really did feel like it was a seperate part of my life. It really had no impact on what was going on with you and me. You may never understand that because you were not in my shoes. I'll be honest, I never wanted to send OM that email calling it off. My feelings towards you are less than what you want."
It is hard to believe that we were planning on renewing our vows just a few months before that email was written.
Maybe she really did fall out of love. Either that, or she is trying to fool me or fool herself.
Just thought I would share before I deleted it for good.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13