Ok, update time. Got a text from W as I was driving home, so that solved that dilemma. Here's the convo:

W - How was work?

M - Slow, glad to be heading home, I'm beat.

W - Me too, been a long day.

M - Get a lot done study wise?

W - Yeah, made a lot of progress, thanks for asking.

M - Awesome, I'm sure you'll do fine.
- Still have a lot to do?

W - Yeah, finishing up one class before we start on the next one.
- I was going to call but I don't want you to make me cry.

M - That is not going to happen W.

So she called, kept it very light, talked about work, her day, her friend who went to Boston for a job interview. She told me she decided to stay and study since her friend came back to school [They're in two classes together]. She asked if I was going to try yoga at all this week, and we spent some time talking about which classes I should start with since I'm a little worried I'm going to be in over my head.

I ended the convo, said I really needed to get some sleep, and wished her luck on her first exam tomorrow...and that was it.

Feelin pretty good right now. And again, this does not sound like a woman who's ready to walk. Granted, she still seems confused, and I have no way of knowing where she really is tonight, but I have to take her at her word that after this week she really might want to give us her full attention.

Really not expecting anything at all at this point. But hope is always there.


BITS
M: 35
W: 27
T 7.5 years
M 5 years
No kids
My EA: 3/08
Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?)
ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11
W at parents house: 4/16/11

Do or do not, there is no try