The Roller Coaster Keeps on Rolling

[NEmoose43]

However, she said that the one thing that the video does not talk about is if or when the WAW ever begins to feel 'in love' with the LBS again. She wonders if these WAW's who end up giving their LBS's a second chance just end up being unhappy anyway, even though their S's have changed and become the S that they always wanted them to be. That is one of her fear's. She says for her anyway, she buried her 'in love' feelings for me so deep in order to gain the strength to leave me, that she does not know if she can find them again.

OK, seriously, are you sure we're not married to the same person? They must be reading the same books or something because I have heard this exact sentence.

My response was actually that I did not expect things to instantly get better like we had flipped a light switch or something. And then I validated as much as I possibly could, spoke to the inner strength that she was rediscovering in herself, and acknowledged my part in her suppressing things and bottling up her emotions because of my reactions.

I know you're aware of a lot of the mistakes I've made over the last couple months, but I feel like this particular convo was not one of them. One of my better moments IMO.

Not sure if it helps or not, just my 2 cents.