The Rollercoaster Ride......2

[AntoniaB]

Lorie I hear you on the home stuff. I added it up and since XH and I lived in my house for 15 years, it seems like EVERYTHING broke right after he left. He and I never had one appliance or anything "go" in the time he lived here. Once he left, about 7000.00 worth of stuff broke/had to be fixed. There was no stopping it. These were necessities, things like floors caving in, washing machine spilling water everywhere, etc. It's like he timed it perfectly to walk away and leave me with the headache and the bills.

That makes everything even MORE difficult.

I think your level of detachment, though, sounds emotionally very good for you, and I think you sound positive despite everything!!