There is another thing that I wanted to run by all of you. Last week I asked him to print something out for me (our printer is broken at home) and he said sure. He said that we would go to lunch when I came to pick it up. So, I went down to his work (he's started a new job) and he took me around and introduced me as his wife. Why would he do that??? Those people do not know me and didn't need to know me. Was that a positive sign? And did I completely ruin it with my "I can't be an option" speech last night?

Any insight would be appreciated! I meant to bring it up last week and it completely slipped my mind.


Me: 31
H: 30
Kids: D9
Together almost 12 years
Married almost 5 years
EA began: 8/10
Separated: 3/11