Am I on the right track?

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I don't think that by you not texting her you are sending a message that you don't care. If anything, I think it shows the opposite. That you care and respect what she needs right now and your willing to give it to her.

I know it's hard. If I don't get a text from H at all I usually get really paranoid, and I have to stop doing that.

Keep your chin up.