Misfits, Just though of another thing: Are you much smaller than him?
I had a friend that was a very large man and his wife was very small...if was very uncomfortable 'playing' with her becuase of the size difference. One of my sisters is also married to a man significantly larger then her and she says that he is also imposing which keeps her from being very active. This is as opposed to more similar sized men in her past.
