Standing for my live-in MLC'er/WAS

[angel61]

Tell me, has anyone here gone through something like I have?

As I said, I feel that H has made a decision to stay, or at least is testing to see if it is workable.

But I do not hear him say it, and he does not act affectionate towards me - no hugs, kisses, loving words. Rather, it is just that he is starting to talk about the future, about plans for us to do things together, and has started "settling" again - doing things he used to do before he bomb, like asking for my help in dressing up, buying clothes, chores - small things he stopped doing a while ago.

He even started touching me in small ways - asking me what was wrong with my leg, playful pushes when joking - again, things he doesn't normally do. And when we sleep, he sometimes snuggles, and does not pull away when I do snuggle.

I am so wishing we could talk .... find out if he is thinking about working on us, ask if he still is interested in retrouvaille. He said that he rarely talks to OW nowadays, and I do believe him, but I am sure that part is still volatile and could always go back to what it was.