highly recommend some of you read faithfulh's thread, or Holly06's thread. She joined this site when I did, in 2006. She's div. Now she and her ex h are dating... Faithfulh's marriage has been fully restored. Mine too. It happens.
Be patient. Be strong, be calm and be dignified. Put your kids first if you have them, and stay on track, whatever path you choose. Get comfortable with changing b/c if you don't, your life will change anyhow and not in a good way. Why not make the changes you want so your new R becomes a better one than it was before? After all, if the new R isn't going to be an improvement over the one your spouse left, why would you want to repeat the same behavior that got you here?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
