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Re: I'm still here all these years later facingdivorce #2151335 05/03/11 11:29 PM
Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,486 Seattle calystra Member
calystra Member Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,486 Seattle	Here are 2 quotes I pulled from my 2003 threads when my H came back from the OW: Originally Posted By: ceberon I just thought I'd give a quick point of view here. No matter what, if you've had a marriage, you have a lot of vested emotional and relationship energy into the other person. No matter what happens with another person outside of the relationship, it's not your spouse. You can't instantly leave and go with another person and be just fine with it.. no matter what a person may say, they're still most likely constantly being reminded of what they've lost. Originally Posted By: ceberon 1. I realized that my W knew a lot of things about me that it would take a very long time for anyone else to know. And that my W also knew things that some people might not be able to accept. She knew I get food poisoning easily (keeps me up all night being really sick), I have a thing about needing some part of my body to touch her while I'm sleeping to be able to relax (sorta lets me know while I'm asleep that she's still there), I hate when people raise their voice at me, the foods I don't like to eat, etc. I realized when I was getting to know OW that I wasn't giving her much information because I couldn't trust that she could handle it as well as my W. -Calystra

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I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 02:21 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 12:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	iwllbd1	05/01/11 02:11 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 03:02 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Timetotry	05/01/11 03:08 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/02/11 10:00 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/03/11 12:46 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/03/11 12:49 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/03/11 12:59 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/03/11 12:29 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/03/11 12:53 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/03/11 03:21 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 04:42 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 04:43 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 05:03 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 07:24 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 07:30 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 07:35 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 07:51 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 08:05 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 08:17 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 08:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 08:12 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/01/11 08:15 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	dbmod	05/01/11 08:15 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 08:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	dbmod	05/01/11 08:50 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/02/11 12:11 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/02/11 01:15 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/02/11 09:50 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Still learning	05/03/11 04:52 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Still learning	05/03/11 05:03 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/03/11 06:08 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/03/11 08:01 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	facingdivorce	05/03/11 08:30 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/03/11 11:29 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 12:50 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/04/11 03:24 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 11:31 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Still learning	05/04/11 12:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 12:40 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/04/11 12:45 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 02:03 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/04/11 10:00 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/05/11 12:48 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/05/11 01:22 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/06/11 12:05 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/06/11 02:20 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/06/11 11:36 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/07/11 01:16 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/07/11 11:55 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/08/11 12:23 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/08/11 12:30 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 12:45 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 12:48 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 11:12 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 01:15 PM
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Re: I'm still here all these years later	punchy	05/08/11 01:32 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 01:49 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	punchy	05/08/11 01:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/08/11 01:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/08/11 02:51 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/08/11 03:00 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/08/11 03:00 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/09/11 01:10 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	~�DG�~	05/09/11 01:26 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/09/11 01:53 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/09/11 02:19 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/09/11 02:40 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/09/11 02:40 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/09/11 06:06 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	dbmod	05/09/11 11:33 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/10/11 03:16 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/10/11 03:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/10/11 11:34 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/11/11 01:14 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	~ kd ~	05/11/11 01:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/11/11 01:39 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/11/11 04:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/11/11 07:01 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/11/11 07:13 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/11/11 09:45 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/12/11 01:30 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/12/11 02:05 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/12/11 02:20 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	calystra	05/12/11 03:20 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/12/11 03:41 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	~ kd ~	05/12/11 04:17 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/12/11 04:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/12/11 04:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/13/11 01:39 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/12/11 04:55 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/13/11 05:44 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	~ kd ~	05/13/11 06:01 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/13/11 09:25 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/14/11 12:25 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/14/11 12:47 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/14/11 01:57 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/15/11 12:16 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/15/11 05:40 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/16/11 05:31 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/16/11 05:54 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/17/11 01:55 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	ninelives	05/17/11 02:47 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 02:06 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 01:24 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/18/11 02:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 09:53 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 03:35 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 06:44 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	InAPickle	05/18/11 07:27 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 08:56 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 09:39 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/18/11 09:54 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/21/11 02:05 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/22/11 03:01 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/22/11 12:57 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/22/11 08:37 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	AJM80	05/23/11 01:08 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/23/11 12:53 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	AJM80	05/24/11 02:30 AM
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Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/25/11 01:46 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/25/11 03:21 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/25/11 04:42 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	25yearsmlc	05/25/11 03:37 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/25/11 03:48 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/25/11 07:07 PM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	dbmod	05/27/11 02:17 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/27/11 03:01 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	Starsky309	05/18/11 02:34 AM
Re: I'm still here all these years later	BeTheMan	05/01/11 07:27 PM

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