From small beginnings come great things

[MichelleLT]

Hey 2step. I can't really add anything to the 2X4 that 25 gave you.

So, I'll just throw in a (((hug))).

I haven't been on here much, doing a little processing of my own. xSIL's wedding is coming up on the 14th, and I'm dreading seeing XH there. The only real positive is that, unless something's changed, OW will not be his date. If I had to see her too, I'd need a lot more to drink lol.

As for the new stuff, she's still sending mixed signals. Don't rise to the bait. Keep staying away from the R stuff.

Big kudos for not contacting her on your anniversary or replying to her text. Definitely a good move.

To continue with the swimming/water metaphor...while you sit there with your feet in the water looking at the other shore, she's on that shore with a fishing rod. And she had you on the line. And she thinks she still does.

You need to slip the hook and start swimming before she'll ever consider getting in the water.