Thanks Dbmod and Mach. I'm trying to figure this out. I really am.

One thing that I have forgotten to mention is that my W did watch MWD's video on WAW syndrome. She agreed that it was 'us' to a t.

However, she said that the one thing that the video does not talk about is if or when the WAW ever begins to feel 'in love' with the LBS again. She wonders if these WAW's who end up giving their LBS's a second chance just end up being unhappy anyway, even though their S's have changed and become the S that they always wanted them to be. That is one of her fear's. She says for her anyway, she buried her 'in love' feelings for me so deep in order to gain the strength to leave me, that she does not know if she can find them again.

Just wondering if anyone has thoughts on this or a good response to this if it comes up for me again (my only response was that it is all about forgiveness).

Thanks all.

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Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce