From small beginnings come great things

[Denver_2010]

For 25years

Hey 2Step - I'm going to hijack your thread for a sec.

25 - No worries. 2Step and I are buddies. He won't mind me hijacking for this reason.

I am hoping that you can find some time to take a look at my sitch. I could use some of your wise insight.

The whole thing is long. Has been going on for as long, or longer, than 2step's sitch. And somewhat similar - with an OM, but without the distance.

W committed to reconciling back in March... stopped contact with OM ... we went to 2 MC sessions but she has now stopped... and has backslid ... distancing herself with me some, and renewed contact with OM... we've gone from hanging out pretty much everyday to maybe once or twice per week ... still have contact at least once per day ... says that she needs time to process her feelings... needs me to be patient ... doesn't want to be committed to me or anyone right now ... that things will sort themselves out ... thinks that if I walk away from the sitch that it will 'say a lot about you and how you feel' ... says one day she feels like reconciling then next she doesn't... says that the one thing that MWD's video on WAW syndrome does not address is if or when 'in love' feelings come back to the WAW and that is what concerns her ... she still worries that things will go back to the way that they were if she comes home.... says she is very torn about everything... says that I am not in competition with OM (but hard for me to see it that way) ...

She is very confused. Much like 2step's W... but with the unfortunate presence of OM.

Sorry 2Step.

Thanks 25.

Denver