Denver...

Long time reader here, just don't post a ton....


What you are feeling is pretty normal when the focus is on the outcome, instead of the journey.

When you focus on the outcome, your actions will take you to places that are not real within yourself.

Does that remind you of anyone you used to be ?

The way I see it is....

You have two choices right now.

Focus on the outcome ?

OR just being that new Denver that you found...


Each is goal oriented...

Which is easiest to achieve ?

Goals for you ?

Or goals for the relationship ?