However, when only one person is working, the reality is "Don't tell me, Don't promise....just do it!"
And many of the complaining persons are not very action oriented. The other person really doesn't know how much trouble or what a big deal this is....
as a man, I can tell you, the other person isn't really listening until you lay it on the line.
I wish, really deeply wish, the non complaining person read and understood the needs. But they don't and I am finding they don't change, until truly forced....
