Cadet, I feel like I have always had a lot of GAL activities going-before, during and after all this MLC stuff.Today, I sent out resumes and tonight I am going bowling, etc... - most every day I have activities to do.
Even when he was still here, I did a lot of GAL stuff, and he would end up coming home even later - it was like I was giving him a free pass those nights to drink out of control, cuz he knew he didnt have to come home for dinner,deal with me, etc...And then that would cut me even more. I guess I just got to the point that I couldnt take it.
However, I am still not sure whether to ever use that "sober up or else " speach again on my H, as it sends him running. If he were to want to rec. I just dont know if I should use it or not. Would it be our death sentence to our M, if its not allready at that point? TIPPER
