Jack, I just printed your response out and put copies in my office, my planner, and one to have in my notebook at home.
Sorry to hijack here Denver, but this speaks so clearly to where I'm at too. EVERYTHING I've done up to now has done nothing but make OM more attractive. This week is going to be the hardest I've had so far, but I need to back off and let her deal with whatever the F is going on in her head. I am certain that there's more that she's dealing with than just him or me because she's outlined a lot of it.
Denver, we both need to concentrate on the things we can control. Both of our W's have seen that we're making changes, it's time to take that next step as Jack is suggesting. Our happiness cannot and should not depend on our WAS, it has to come from the new selves that we refine in this fire (Jack, don't know where that line came from, but it is AMAZING). I am so inspired right now. Hope you are too.
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11
