I had my son just 3 years ago. I devoted myself to him and all his needs. I tried to be the best mum I could. At the very same time my husband started his law career. He also devoted all his time and energy to being the best lawyer he could be. It was at this point we started drifting apart.
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I had my son just 3 years ago.
At first I thought that maybe your son was with another man. The way you claim him.
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"please bring my daddy home".
But I get the feeling...you and your husband have a son together.
Every time you address your son, it is MY...not ours. Not his. Do you do that in in the real world? Something to think about. As a dad, that would upset me, if my wife refered to our boys, as hers.
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I devoted myself to him and all his needs.
At cost to your marriage?
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He also devoted all his time and energy to being the best lawyer he could be.
At cost to your marriage?
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It was at this point we started drifting apart.
Yup.
A child hopefully is the joyful result of love between a husband and wife. Not to take away from that love, or replace it.
Now this:
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The first one occured on our anniversary - I asked him to move out...
...we ended up having a big argument and I told him to leave.
You should REALLY stop pulling that card out in a fight. It's a horrible tactic plain stupid.
Right now, stop pressuring him. Stop pushing him. Stop saying I love you.
Get Divorce Remedy and read it.
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