Then my emotions got the better of me and I sent a text to W about how that clip was "funny" as per something our friend did. All she responded was "yes, he is funny".
Yes, I know it goes against principles I texted W last night simply saying (yes, I know it's wrong, but I did it) "I thought you might have had more to say about you and OM on the couch". (I'm sensitive because it is this OM that I found in my bed with W last october, under my covers, but fully clothed, with W).
Anyhow (and this is pretty much the same response W told me about the bed incidence), this is what W responded in email:
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"Subject: What you didn't see
Is me, OM 35 and (enabling) GF on the couch. Wow - you are so quick to judge. And I’m not going to defend my actions. There are my friends. I hang out with them. And I don’t need your permission or approval.
I don’t ask you what you are doing in your private life. I don’t watch you on FB and judge your behavior. I don’t come into your home without your knowledge and look through your things.
Do you know why? Because I’m done. As I’ve been telling you for the past 9 months.
I’m so sick of this. "
Interesting. So after all this time, and all this reading and advice, there are things that you KNOW you shouldn't do, and yet you make a conscious decision to do them anyway, just cuz you feel like it.