Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Seems like a lot of 'your' effort.


Yeah, I see what you're saying.

Just to give you some perspective on the "old country."

Know what I got her for her BDay last year?

A fry pan.

Want to know the kicker?

I was 2 months late. sick

Then I also think about what she did for my BDay (post separation)

She had D paint a picture, and then she even framed it. She also got me a gift from herself, with a nice card.

Always tough to balance 180's and other DB techniques. Sometimes they can conflict.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.