I miss... who she was. I feel a bit guilty about it,
Your words sure tugged at my heart. I've been M to the same man for many years. Neither of us are the same two people we were at the time we M. I could tear up and cry right now just thinking about that sweet young man who captured my heart. But, I have learned that if a couple stays together for "life", then they have to expect changes in both individuals. Adapting to those changes is often very hard. Maybe we don't want to see them change, and OTOH some changes are for the best. The point is that the couple has to work through those growing pains, b/c if they don't it will tear them apart.
So, it's okay to miss the girl you M. Hopefully and prayerfully, she will come through these changes as a better person. It doesn't look like that right now, but it's not over, yet.
((hugs))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
