YOu deserve some fun together. I remember that part in MWD's books where she talks about how the LBS has left so much of their emotions/needs back while trying to work on the marriage, that when it comes to putting it all back together, they are a bit of a mess. All those pent up emotions come out and need to get dealt with.
You are doing fine. Maybe it is good that is has sometimes gone really sloooowwww, as you both get used to each other again.
Big hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
