Take The Long Way Home...

[OnMyWay]

Great advise from punchy & 9. You've done your part, so do nothing else. She must have skin in this game. Don't make it easy for her or give her a reason to resent you by making a decision for her (aka having her served). Just move on with your life until she figures it out.

My W did the same thing. She was a major Beeotch wanting a D. I finally realized I can't control her or what she does, so I dumped it back on her with an, "I've thought it over and if you feel a D is what you need then I won't stand in your way." She asked why I changed my mind. I just told her I hadn't, but I recognized she needed to do what she needed to do and I'm not gonna fight with her about it. Told her to make her best offer up front and let's get it done. That was back in the beginning March. She's done nothing.

I've regularly found once they feel they you're back on their side of things, they change the rules. The more against I am about staying together, the closer W becomes. The more you are about getting D, the less important it is to your W. The less you want to be with them, the more they start coming around. It IS crazy. Flat out insane, if you ask me.

Chin up FOBD. You are still my hero!