There are alot of people on the boards who give great advice and you should definitely hear what they are saying. Sometimes, it's better to let them have their space (and here I am the pot calling the kettle) even though it goes against EVERYTHING that we think. Sandi has some good advice "she has already left". That should really help you focus on the best ways to try to get back on the same path.
Good Luck to you this week! Keep coming here to vent and talk! Maybe that will help you to keep your cool and not contact her even though everything inside of you is screaming that you need that contact!!
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11